Optimum

With the firm understanding that there is no such thing as a hierarchy in the world of gender variance, we can safely state that whatever works for you is right. This means that cross gender expression which has little to no identity component attached to it is fine provided you understand that is where you lie.

Failing to do that internal work risks us overshootong or conversely undershooting a response. Therefore transitioning might be an overreaction just as much as "I'm only a crossdresser" could be dismissive of what you actually need for optimum wellness and balance. This stability is only attained by comprehending the true motivation behind your gender variance via a brutally honest self assessment and if it's just dressing up then so be it.

If you reside on the extreme ends of the identity and expression axiom it might be easier to come to equilibrium than existing somewhere in between.

I wish it were easier but it's not.