Every story unique

To be very clear, this blog does not advocate for transition but instead for the management of gender dysphoria which for some of you may mean transition. I have written many times before that the "less is more" approach is always the best and my natural skepticism is what kept me balanced even during my worst bouts of dysphoria.

Gender transition works for many people but not for all and when I see detransition stories peddled as being indicative of what trans people should do it annoys me. For I am friends with people who are alive today because they did transition.

Every story is unique and we should respect their decision to do what is right for them which doesn't necessarily mean it will work for someone else. But some advocates will try to peddle a narrative which attacks the other. There are YouTube channels trying hard to sell only one side of the story.

We do your homework, we think long and hard and we go slow.