Complex

Human relationships are hard enough but then try adding an amorous component. I suspect that biological appetite is what drives us when young for good reason since as we get older we marvel at how two people stay together. But before that realization is set in concrete, hopefully we have procreated.

My daughter recently had a breakup with her longtime boyfriend which is her introduction to the variability of things in this mysterious arena. I have listened to her explanation and it makes me reflect on how subtle the formula is and how many factors need to fall into place to make it all work for the long haul.

Maybe the trick is to add enough complexities to the union so that we feel there is little point to a separation. But if it does happen, we know with age to be careful and reflect on how high the stakes can be before we ever attempt it again.