One layer of angst

Certainly anyone over the age of 50 knows that the most fundamental and pervasive programming they received from birth was how they were to behave and express themselves right down to the permitted vestments. What is interesting when reflecting on the subject of gender variance, is that the fundamental gender identity of the person need not always be questioned and there are many individuals, both gay and straight, who simply want the freedom of expression.

Where it gets complicated is when the identification with birth sex begins to get blurred which then obliges a reflection process as to what to do. This is why transgender people tend to have anguish until this disconnect issue is resolved because it touches on core identity rather than just expression. To add insult to injury and with acknowledgement to Harry Benjamin, this alienation from birth sex appears to be graded.

The expression side used to be much more taboo but with its increased acceptance in its various forms, we are sparing the individual the stigma which it used to invite thus lifting at least one layer of potential angst and encouraging happiness.