Gamble

I now understand very well that transgender people with deeply unresolved gender dysphoria can be a dangerous gamble for a partner. Either they will stew in suppressed frustration for years or suddenly come out and spring a surprise need to transition that their partner may not have seen coming. I am speaking here for those who are gynephilic.

I was such a ticking time bomb but refused to see it.

With the open environment of today, young transgender people can do what they must to resolve their situation early in life and then partner with people who will accept them exactly as they are. If not they can live alone in harmony with themselves.