Inescapable

Becoming fully ourselves not only removes the need for comparison to others but also frees the mind from the idea that we are trying to somehow fool the public. I do not like the concept of "passing" because it implies subterfuge and being someone you aren't. You may or may not have had any surgeries and yet the idea that you are always yourself is inescapable.

The concept of the self is sourced entirely in the mind and is independent of what our body looks like which is why our psychology is so primordial in developing identity. The more I became rooted in that thinking the better I blended because people evaluate us by the confidence we exude which shows them we know exactly who we are.

What we wear then becomes almost completely irrelevant.