No one way

Sometimes I see content from young transgender people who are not into typical forms of femininity. They have gender dysphoria but they don't necessarily want to wear dresses or makeup. In other words they end up being like some genetic women are who aren't overtly feminine but find an expression balance that is almost in a tomboy range.

Of course there isn't one way to be female and once dysphoria is treated the person can end up assuming a more androgynous type of existence. This shows how once the disconnect is addressed, the balance of masculine and feminine energy can be played with and a baseline established which feels right to them.

As a contrast, the compartmentalized existence of some who are part time can create two separate characters which are sometimes nothing alike and all of the feminine energy resides in only one of them. That version of the self is often more likely to be extra feminine as a result.

Two cases where the expression and identity balance is very different.