Selective

It turns out that trans people are as unlikable and vapid as anyone else which should not surprise. Caitlyn Jenner, for example, is as empty headed as they come and I can think of other examples as can you.

We do not make deep connections with people just because we share something so intrinsic which is why I base my opinion of people on a whole series of metrics.

We can be selective and avoid groupthink while generally supporting the rights of all people to self determination.