Goals and distractions

As we get older both goals and distractions disappear. We have lived to get to some point all our lives and suddenly they are gone. That wedding, that first house, that new job, they are now part of your past plus our children are adults. We are very much still alive and perhaps even highly motivated but there are no more mandatory mountains to climb. It's why I have said that whatever was left unattended in some mental drawer will invariably need tending to.

This is not about distracting yourself with activities but about examining yourself at your core and if you are an introspective person, it will be all the more prominent. Being transgender will simply add yet another layer of complexity.