Accept everyone

I think that if gender variance were more universally accepted there would be less impetus to try and lump it all under one category which would help weed out those who need help with dysphoria from those who don't suffer from it.

Right now this is not the case and people who go to fetish nights twice a year are lumped in with dysphoric trans kids which helps absolutely no one. I think we are almost there mind you except that a woefully uneducated public is being manipulated by those who would see all gender variance simply disappear and for whom one of these kids and a drag queen are exactly the same phenomenon. Some gender variant people also like the protection that one massive grouping provides and I suppose you can hardly blame them. We should let people be who they are plain and simple, provided it harms no one else.

Even when explaining the fundamentals of this topic to well educated and sympathetic people, I realized there was a lot of misinformation and lack of knowledge which made me realize it's an uphill battle. Imagine how much worse when you're ill intentioned and not so educated.