Hobbyist

I used to see some gender variant people describe what they did on their blogs or comments as a "hobby" which has also been confirmed by meeting some of them over the years. It used to perplex me but it no longer does because I have come to understand that the world of gender variance is very wide. The person who contacted me recently and then did not reply when they found out I had socially transitioned was one of those people. That this blog does not focus on them does not mean I don't wish them well.

Yes, I do make clear distinctions between dysphoric and non dysphoric people but those who aren't should simply enjoy their guilt free gender expression.