Self-conciousness is a horrible affliction which I suffered from in spades for many years. If you are a shy kid it comes with the territory and in many transgender people it can form part of the portfolio because of the derision and aggression against them. Sometimes it can seep dangerously close to narcissism if we aren't careful.
It is when we let go of self-absorption that we allow full authenticity to take hold. We stop worrying about who is looking and why and concentrate on going about our business.
People react to me differently since I rid myself of this affliction which does not mean letting one's guard down. They want to see someone comfortable in their skin and when we provide it they are reassured and almost thankful.
So many people don't have confidence in themselves and their abilities.
I protect myself while at the same time trying to be kind.
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