Adaptation

We morph into new beings over time as our psychology changes. This morning it was chilly so I left the house in slim fit jeans, a black top, a light black 3/4 length fall windbreaker and low heel black pumps (rare because I am usually in ballet flats or white sneakers). 

It doesn't feel the same way it used to years ago because my normal has adapted. For a long time now these have just been my clothes and no longer have a magical power but they feel right because they help represent my identity. 

If you are older, this process can take time. You eventually don't overthink or second guess anymore because you don't need to. 

The psychology, which always lags behind, needs to catch to where you are to close the circle so we can make complete sense of that adaptation and why it suits you.