The cycles of our emotional state don't get resolved because we find a resolution to our gender issues. We are still left with being human and every person deals with their own roller coaster of biorhythms regardless of their origins.
We can confuse the two things and be tempted to think that gender euphoria will persist as a panacea for what ails us when it won't. All will calm itself into less euphoria but also less dysphoria which we should be very happy to attain.
People who live on sporadic cross gender expression won't understand me fully until they live it for themselves. Their anxious energy build up until the next opportunity will keep them going but it will only work in direct proportion to the level of their gender identity disconnect. In other words, the worse the dysphoria, the less this tactic will work. Thus if dysphoria is virtually non-existent all the better for them since it gives them flexibility to tweak their life model.
Ultimately what we are trying to do is blend ourselves into cohesive beings who want to keep their boat steady.
Because steady is good.
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