Capacity

While I am happy and calm like I have never been before, I also need to be careful. If need be I can have a hair trigger temper and a nasty mouth. 

If you bother me in public I will put you in your place in a heartbeat. 

I tell transgender people to develop a strong spine but overdoing it isn't good. Like everything else in life there is balance. 

I have no fear of death but it doesn't mean I am actively searching for it. That being said, people will not step on my toes and they can tell I have the capacity to defend my territory.

To most people however, I am like a pussycat :)