Rebuild

Our psychology should be disassembled and then reassembled with new instructions. In other words, we dissect the childhood and identify which information was useless, contradictory and even harmful to us and then reconstruct. 

This is not an obvious process and there will be obstacles many of which are a product of our own adherence to programming. But if we understand that much of the world order is based on mindless drivel we can work our way back towards a stable and useful psychology with a solid foundation. 

People who don't naturally fit in must do this because without that rebuild they will always be trapped trying to reconcile against a baseline they cannot adhere to without losing themselves and their authenticity.