Your brand

I don't post anymore about what I wear because it holds less importance than ever and yet I cannot deny that there are aspects of femininity that I enjoy and can much more freely regale in. 

Despite being tall I have blended into society with a combination of comfort and style which suits me. It is a form of subdued femininity that feels right and was arrived at organically. 

Your own mileage will vary but I think that finding a balance point between masculine and feminine energy is a process which everyone goes through regardless of whether they are transgender or not. You find a sweet spot and establish a personal style almost as a brand. 

It took me a long time to get here but the aim was always to stay away from caricature and settle for tasteful as per the female role models I grew up with. 

The trick was to not abandon the masculine traits which all people possess to arrive at who I am. For example, after her transition Charlie Martin was still a race car driver and retained something she was passionate about. She remained who she was internally which is all that matters.

My nails are always painted and this little thing is part of my brand. Lately I got tired of red and made a change because I could.