If you reflect on it deeply you realize you may have been helped by friends, spouses and family less than you think. We grew up thinking that people were on our side and there for us but slowly life showed us otherwise.
It's not that people are evil it's that they are focused on their own issues and we form part of a second tier of concern. After we retire that all becomes doubly apparent because by this age we have also been graced with BS detection.
People are hurt by their own traumas and they tend to them as best they can. So it's not about assigning them blame. This is about realizing that we are responsible for elevating ourselves and not count on others to be our therapist or savior.
They have their own problems some much greater than our own.
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